guys little problem need suggestions

[uz214]

i filed for AOS package couple of months and got my finger printing done and everything..we are a new couple so couple of days ago we had a major argument, my wife got emotional and contacted her attorney and told him to send a letter to INS cancel my request for everything, she called again today to stop it but the lawyer already send it..the lawyer says that we need to file it again? is there a fix to any of this? and will it effect our future application? need help guys thanks in advance

[cherr1980]

Off topic...what you should do is to know if for every big argument (regardless if there was a "who fault" ) is going to be hold against your immigration status. For me, that's a little scary.

If the lawyer send it already, he should know better what to do, I assume he is an immigration attorney, right? I think or you must wait to get the denied letter and then re-file or just go ahead and re-file.

There is a fix...you will have to file again and pay, I guess, everything again. Not sure about that to be sincere.

Good luck.

[trialanderror83]

i filed for AOS package couple of months and got my finger printing done and everything..we are a new couple so couple of days ago we had a major argument, my wife got emotional and contacted her attorney and told him to send a letter to INS cancel my request for everything, she called again today to stop it but the lawyer already send it..the lawyer says that we need to file it again? is there a fix to any of this? and will it effect our future application? need help guys thanks in advance

Not to be rude but what happens at the next fight?.......Is she gonna threaten your AOS again??

[Triple Citizen]

I hope the "so" is a typo and should be "and". The newness of the couple should not translate into a need to have an argument :)

we are a new couple so couple of days ago we had a major argument

[trialanderror83]

I hope the "so" is a typo and should be "and". The newness of the couple should not translate into a need to have an argument :)

A newly wed couple, she already wants his GC....woman!:)

[shefe]

UZ214,

The truth is bitter but she will do it again and probably do worse. I mean just an argument and she withdraws u INS Benefit.

[wifey246]

I agree. This INS thing is a very long process that has to be taken seriously. Almost as serious as your marriage vows. And it requires commitment. More than a relationship that doesn't involve immigration would. It even adds stress to an otherwise normal and healthy relationship.

You didn't divulge much of what happened except that it's a MAJOR argument, and that your wife became emotional, but you have to reconsider your situation here. Can your relationship survive another major argument. If your wife is really inclined to make these decisions based on her emotions, you'll be walking on thin ice for at least the next 3 years.

[klik4it]

it sounds like your wife IS going to bring up your Immigration status quite often and that is emotional torture in any reasonable persons book.sounds like ur in for quite the trip.

[uz214]

yes, she will probably and you guys are 100% right, at this point i will just have to wait and re-file again. Will it this at some point will put me out of status?

[uz214]

she pretty much thinks i got married for green card, because she hears stories from her sisters and friends about these types of cases and guys leaving girls after the card, which atleast in my case isn't true. II agree. This INS thing is a very long process that has to be taken seriously. Almost as serious as your marriage vows. And it requires commitment. More than a relationship that doesn't involve immigration would. It even adds stress to an otherwise normal and healthy relationship.

You didn't divulge much of what happened except that it's a MAJOR argument, and that your wife became emotional, but you have to reconsider your situation here. Can your relationship survive another major argument. If your wife is really inclined to make these decisions based on her emotions, you'll be walking on thin ice for at least the next 3 years.

[cherr1980]

..and you still want to be in that marriage?

[PraetorianXI]

..and you still want to be in that marriage?

or the green card? :rolleyes:

[uz214]

she didnt cancel anything... she just told me she did- thanks guys i will keep you updated-

[TNguy78]

she didnt cancel anything... she just told me she did- thanks guys i will keep you updated-

So... she was just toying with your emotions? Sounds pretty cruel to me.

[Al Southner]

She is going to hold you by the nuts each time she has a disagreement with you. I wouldn't use a lawyer who advises my wife to screw me over some nonsense. Marriage is not as perfect as potrayed in Hollywood and arguments are normal.

The lawyer is just a self-fish butt, who is concerned about making additional money out of the stupidity which both you and your wife seem have, or maybe lack of emotional maturity to be adults who can agree to disagree. You are going to be walking and living on egg shells...

Good luck to you...

[myredskins]

What if this guy already had a conditional green card and his wife called the INS? What would be the implications lol?

[uz214]

Well she did actually wrote letter to INS and it has been cancelled-

can i still go back to school i was doing my MBA and renew i-20?

[asPapi]

My heart goes out to you :(